英语积累Day 58

这样做会让我们更自信，对自己感觉更好，同时也会让对方感到被重视，这是双赢的局面。接受别人的夸赞也是如此。过去，我经常会淡化或推脱别人的夸奖，觉得自己是在谦虚。但其实，别人夸你的时候，是在赠予你他们的钦佩和赞赏。而推脱或不以为然是在轻视自己，也是在拒绝别人真心的馈赠。所以，下次有人夸你的时候，坦然接受并说声谢谢就好了。

It's just so much more empowering, it makes us feel better about ourselves, and it also makes the other person feel valued too. It's a win-win. And the same thing goes when we're receiving compliments. In the past, I used to downplay or brush off compliments, thinking I was being modest. But when someone is offering praise, they're gifting you with their admiration. And to dismiss it is to downplay yourself and also to refuse someone's heartfelt gift. So the next time someone gives you a compliment, just accept it and say thank you.